You’ve probably heard the term “first look” thrown around. It’s that moment before the ceremony when you see each other for the first time. Just the two of you. No crowd. No pressure. Just real emotions.
I’m not here to push you one way or the other. I’m here to help you think it through and make the choice that feels most like you.
What’s a First Look?
It’s a quiet reveal before the ceremony. You turn around and see each other fully dressed up with nerves buzzing and hearts full. You can hug, laugh, cry, or just soak it in. It’s your moment.
Why Some Couples Love It
More time together
You get a moment to breathe before everything starts.
It calms the nerves
You’ll feel less anxious walking into the ceremony.
More time for photos
We can knock out portraits early which means more time with your guests later.
You get to be yourselves
It’s easier to relax when it’s just the two of you with no one watching.
Why Some Couples Skip It
They want the aisle moment
That dramatic reveal. The gasp. The crowd.
Tradition matters
For some families and cultures that first look belongs at the ceremony.
They like the surprise
Holding off keeps the anticipation building.
My Honest Take
I’ve done it both ways. For one couple the first look felt like pressing pause. For another saving it for the aisle made it feel cinematic. Either way it’s always real. Always emotional. Always beautiful.
I’m not into stiff poses or fake laughs. I’m here for the moments that matter whatever they look like for you.
Planning a First Look in Vancouver
This city is a dream for first looks. Forests. Beaches. Mountains. Even tucked away corners in the city can feel magical. You can also choose to do your first look right in your ceremony space. That can feel even more aligned with your values and vision. I’ll scout out the perfect spot with great light and zero stress. We’ll keep it simple.
Does It Ruin the Aisle Moment?
Nope. If anything it makes it more emotional. You’ve already had your moment together. Now it’s time to celebrate it with everyone else.
Can We Keep It Private?
Totally up to you. Want just us there? Easy. Want your besties hyping you up in the background? We’ll make it happen.
Should We Plan Extra Time?
Yeah a little. The moment itself is quick but we’ll use the time to take some portraits too. Think of it as your first little adventure of the day.
Do We Need to Worry About Planning It?
Nope. I’ve got it. I’ll handle the location timing and flow. You just show up and feel whatever you feel. That’s where the good stuff is.
Final Thoughts
A first look isn’t for everyone. But if the idea makes you smile let’s do it. If you want to hold off we’ll make that moment down the aisle one to remember.
Your wedding your call. I will be supporting you 100 percent of the way regardless of what you choose.
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