This guide takes you from the first 'yes' all the way to your wedding day. From finding the right photographer to building a timeline that keeps things stress-free, everything here is designed to help you plan with confidence, stay true to yourselves, and be fully present on the day that means the most.
Here’s why choosing the right photographer matters. They’re with you from your engagement session all the way to your wedding day—from quiet moments getting ready to dancing your heart out. Find someone who feels like a friend, who hypes you up, has your back, and genuinely understands what you value most. Because anyone can take a thousand pretty photos, but if they don’t capture what truly matters to you, then what’s the point?
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Must-ask questions for your photographer
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Explore photo styles that feel most like you two.
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Your venue sets the tone and helps shape the whole plan.
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Lock in your date first. Everything else depends on it.
Everything in this guide reflects what truly matters to me: creating space where you can be yourselves, feel supported, and have your story documented in a way that feels honest. No stiff poses or forced smiles, just real moments that reflect your connection and everything you value most.
If that sounds like what you’re looking for, take your time exploring the resources below. They’re packed with tips and care, all to help you feel ready and confident.
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— Lindsay & Ken
Tommy was an incredibly knowledgable and professional
— Brianne & Ben
His expert skill and keenly creative eye, he is very kind, patient, and accommodating.
— Sonia & Rick
My fiancé and I felt so relaxed around Tommy and that helped us remain natural and genuine
Feel confident and look natural in photos. Get the full posing guide and video tips to help you both feel relaxed, connected, and camera-ready. Click below to access the full guide!
Experience photography built on care, connection, and kindness. I work with couples who value meaning over perfection and want to feel truly seen. This isn’t just about photos—it’s about creating space for real moments to unfold naturally. Want to know what that feels like? See what my couples have shared below.
— Naomi & Alex
We both felt completely comfortable with him, and his calm energy made it all feel natural and special. The photos are amazing, and the memories are even better. If you’re looking for a photographer who goes above and beyond—Tommy is your guy ♡
From the couples I’ve had the honor of photographing
— Ankita & Amit
we’re already blown away by the quality and creativity. Tommy has an amazing eye for detail and a real gift for capturing natural moments. Highly recommend him to anyone looking for a talented and kind photographer!
From the couples I’ve had the honor of photographing
— Zoey & Andy
It was the first ever formal shooting with a professional photographer for us and we have truly enjoyed the whole process from the beginning to the end with his friendliness, patience and thoughtfulness about every details.
From the couples I’ve had the honor of photographing