What’s a First Look?
You’ve probably heard the term “first look” before. It’s the moment you see each other before the ceremony. Just the two of you. No crowd. No pressure. Just real emotion.
I’m not here to sway you either way. I’m here to help you make the call that feels most like you.
So What Is It?
A first look is a quiet reveal before the ceremony. One of you turns around. You lock eyes. You’re all dressed up with your hearts racing. It’s raw. It’s real. You can laugh, cry, hug, or just take it all in. It’s your moment.
Why Some Couples Love It
More time together
You get to pause and be with each other before the day really begins.
It calms the nerves
Seeing your person has a way of grounding you. You walk into the ceremony feeling calm and steady.
More time for photos
We can take portraits early, which frees up more time to be with your guests later.
You get to be yourselves
It’s easier to be real when it’s just the two of you. No one watching. Just connection.
Why Some Couples Skip It
They want the aisle moment
That big, emotional reveal in front of everyone. The gasp. The tears. The energy.
Tradition matters
For some families or cultures, the ceremony is the first time you’re meant to see each other.
They like the build-up
Holding off adds to the anticipation. That first look happens in front of everyone, and it’s electric.
My Honest Take
I’ve done it both ways. Some couples say their first look felt like a breath of fresh air. Others say saving it for the aisle made it all the more powerful.
Either way, it’s always real. Always emotional. Always beautiful.
I’m not here for stiff poses or fake smiles. I’m here for whatever your real moment looks like.
Planning a First Look in Vancouver
This city was made for moments like this. Forest trails. Quiet beaches. Mountain overlooks. Even downtown has hidden corners with magic light.
You can also do your first look right at your venue. Sometimes that feels even more aligned with your vision.
Wherever you choose, I’ll help you find the perfect spot with soft light and no stress.
Does It Ruin the Aisle Moment?
Not at all. If anything, it adds to it. You’ve already had your time together. Now you’re sharing the day with everyone else. That moment down the aisle still hits different.
Can We Keep It Private?
Totally. Just the two of you? Easy. Want your friends cheering you on from a distance? We’ll make that happen too.
Should We Plan Extra Time?
A little. The moment itself goes quick, but we’ll use that time for portraits too. Think of it as your first mini adventure of the day.
Do We Need to Worry About the Details?
Nope. I’ve got it covered. Location. Timing. Flow. All handled. You just show up and feel what you feel. That’s where the magic is.
Final Thoughts
A first look isn’t for everyone. But if the idea makes you smile, let’s do it. If it’s not your thing, we’ll make that walk down the aisle unforgettable.
It’s your day. Your way. I’ll be right there with you, either way.
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